tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10967755.post1701326013371914250..comments2024-02-16T15:04:58.667-05:00Comments on Deviant Stitches: Big NewsRobyn Wadehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17068392655861167332noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10967755.post-30153903435337651532009-10-21T23:00:36.636-04:002009-10-21T23:00:36.636-04:00a very mature way to handle a bad situation. and I...a very mature way to handle a bad situation. and I get the losing yourself in a marriage. I have no clue who i am anymore and I realize I am a different person around him and I am just not ready to walk away but you are brave to realize it was unhealthy for you. You're a bit over generous with them but you're you and I'm me. Good luckAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10967755.post-37191716333427743592009-10-13T17:03:05.026-04:002009-10-13T17:03:05.026-04:00you're an amazing and strong person! thank you...you're an amazing and strong person! thank you for sharing your story :)metal mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04867159811970897698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10967755.post-11668693753447317742009-10-09T04:55:31.439-04:002009-10-09T04:55:31.439-04:00Hi, Robyn. Three things I want to say upon readin...Hi, Robyn. Three things I want to say upon reading your latest post...<br /><br />1. Yes - congratulations! You, and my friend Sue Alexander, and a few others that I have known, have been able to "pull off", if you will, a peacable divorce, where you can think for the greatest good. I never have. I admire the hell out of people like you!<br /><br />2. I have stayed in relationships far longer than I should have, because I was more bonded with the family, so I very much understand you there!<br /><br />3. When I went for marriage counseling in my last marriage it was all about ME making changes and giving up MY things that brought ME happiness and - well - ME. He didn't have to give up a thing! In your case, more serious (he didn't give up his Charley horse, did he?). I'm wondering if this is standard practice in marital counseling?! Now, I'm seeing a (negative) pattern, and, am I pissed!<br /><br />My concern is that you find a good place to live w/ Astrid with her health change.<br /><br />My comment is that - gee, your life seems to be "under construction" all over, including the street your store is on!<br /><br />I am holding you in my heart,<br />Jeannee<br />edisonmyndiecoco@yahoo.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10967755.post-33677139503327138272009-10-08T17:04:52.770-04:002009-10-08T17:04:52.770-04:00well done at being so level headed about it and ma...well done at being so level headed about it and making the changes you need to make your life what you want it to be. My marriage ended almost 2 years ago now and I am so much happier now, and like you I have brought things back into my life that I had sacrificed for the marriage. Best of luck to you!Annahttp://vegfoodforthought.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10967755.post-33964180404357488452009-10-08T11:43:07.949-04:002009-10-08T11:43:07.949-04:00I'm really happy for you! I know were aren'...I'm really happy for you! I know were aren't like "Best Friends" or anything - but - I can relate a lot to your post and understand what you mean. I am jealous of your clarity and maturity and am very happy to that there is a resolution to something that must have been unbearable.Anniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13212364723982980295noreply@blogger.com